You know the typical conversation you get into sometimes with your spouse, parent, sibling, child, or friend:
-“You did this...”
-“No you did that...”
-“You never understand..”
-“No you don’t get it...”
So the individuals in this conversation haven’t exactly demonstrated excellent communication skills, or offered any new solutions or reached a greater level of understanding, right?
This happens when the way something is said becomes the reason of the fight, instead of the actual issue – so you start ‘fighting about the fight’. Such a situation causes a waste of time, hurt feelings, and can cause some real detriment to a relationship.
Think about it – how do we react when we’re told we’re wrong, to blame, or made a mistake? We may become defensive or enter into attack mode, even if what’s being said is correct.
So how do we resolve this?
To find out more, please join us for our FREE special session this Thursday June 16th at 8pm EST on the “Four Most Common Communication Problems” at the following link:
http://InstantTeleseminar.com/?eventID=20406990
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